Category Archives: BDSM

Waiting…..

Posted on 19/03/2017 by

So a few weeks ago I spent some time in a silent monastery, and what does one do in a silent monastery? One spends time in silent prayer.   The trouble with silent prayer though is whilst you are busy … Continue reading →

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Fear the Lord your Dom/me

Posted on 29/10/2016 by

  Deuteronomy 10.20: You shall fear the Lord your God; him alone you shall worship; to him you shall hold fast, and by his name you shall swear.  

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Fr. Dominant/br. submissive – Monastic Kink

Posted on 01/08/2016 by

I spent some time living alongside a community of monks recently and as I’m attempting to write a kink based theology I did some reflecting and tried to view it through the BDSM lens….. with varying results

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Slaves and Masters – A Kinky Person Reads Ephesians.

Posted on 05/07/2016 by

This post was originally written for a friend who created an online queer commentary for the letter to the Ephesians. I was given the passage about slaves and masters (for obvious reasons) which can be found here:  Ephesians 6.5-9 – … Continue reading →

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An introductory lecture to Kink and Theology

Posted on 11/03/2016 by

This is the first (mini) lecture I’ve given on my Kink Theology idea. Given to a University Kink Society at a session they held on Kink and Academia.

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Church Dogminatrix – Meditation & Prayer

Posted on 05/03/2016 by

Prayer and meditation are staples of the religious and spiritual life. In fact it’s neigh on impossible to lead a spiritual life without at least one of these things. They’re certainly not exclusively Christian either, prayer is universal to all … Continue reading →

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In Service Topping to the Lord

Posted on 13/02/2016 by

The Christian minister holds a unique position in the world today. As leaders of communities they are given charge over people and head up teams of both employees and volunteers. They are often responsible for a big expensive building (sometimes … Continue reading →

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Going deeper at Christmas

Posted on 30/12/2015 by

So I couldn’t not write a christmas piece for this blog what with it being the second most important festival in the Christian faith. But what could a fetish blog possibly have to say about this most wonderful time of … Continue reading →

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Making my self a switch to all…

Posted on 30/11/2015 by

So I recently had my first experience properly dominating someone. I’d met this girl at my university’s fetish society and we hit it off and talked about potentially playing together. We were both subs so I said we could try … Continue reading →

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The Submissive Virgin Mary

Posted on 13/10/2015 by

Can Mary’s submissive “yes” be saved and transformed by the BDSM understanding of what it means to be a bottom and truly submit? Continue reading →

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