Category Archives: BDSM

Anxiety and Submissive me.

Posted on 24/03/2019 by

So I’ve recently started seeing a therapist for my anxiety. It’s been a big step for me because I was one of those (stupid) people who always thought going to therapy was weak, and that I wasn’t really that bad … Continue reading →

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Christian Perversions

Posted on 18/10/2018 by

Recently I’ve been spending time chatting with a number of Christian Kinksters and exploring their ideas of BDSM and kink households. Whilst I do not want to fall into the trap of kink shaming, I must admit what I discovered … Continue reading →

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God made me Kinky

Posted on 03/10/2018 by

God Made me Kinky. That’s how I know God is ok with BDSM and kink. Because if God made me this way then it surely can not be bad in God’s eyes. BDSM is not a sin if explored safely … Continue reading →

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BDSM and the Eucharist

Posted on 19/01/2018 by

“Take, eat, this is my body broken for you” When it comes to intimacy with God, no other act of worship or devotion brings us closer or deeper into contact with the Divine than the Eucharist. In the Eucharist, or … Continue reading →

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Rubber Hooded Clergy

Posted on 30/11/2017 by

In the world of Christian liturgical worship clothing is very important, and when used correctly can bring a whole other dimension to the experiences of those involved. Special types of clothing worn by those leading worship (and occasionally those participating … Continue reading →

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Waiting…..

Posted on 19/03/2017 by

So a few weeks ago I spent some time in a silent monastery, and what does one do in a silent monastery? One spends time in silent prayer.   The trouble with silent prayer though is whilst you are busy … Continue reading →

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Fear the Lord your Dom/me

Posted on 29/10/2016 by

  Deuteronomy 10.20: You shall fear the Lord your God; him alone you shall worship; to him you shall hold fast, and by his name you shall swear.  

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Fr. Dominant/br. submissive – Monastic Kink

Posted on 01/08/2016 by

I spent some time living alongside a community of monks recently and as I’m attempting to write a kink based theology I did some reflecting and tried to view it through the BDSM lens….. with varying results

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Slaves and Masters – A Kinky Person Reads Ephesians.

Posted on 05/07/2016 by

This post was originally written for a friend who created an online queer commentary for the letter to the Ephesians. I was given the passage about slaves and masters (for obvious reasons) which can be found here:  Ephesians 6.5-9 – … Continue reading →

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An introductory lecture to Kink and Theology

Posted on 11/03/2016 by

This is the first (mini) lecture I’ve given on my Kink Theology idea. Given to a University Kink Society at a session they held on Kink and Academia.

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