Category Archives: spirituality

Rubber Hooded Clergy

In the world of Christian liturgical worship clothing is very important, and when used correctly can bring a whole other dimension to the experiences of those involved. Special types of clothing worn by those leading worship (and occasionally those participating … Continue reading

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Waiting…..

So a few weeks ago I spent some time in a silent monastery, and what does one do in a silent monastery? One spends time in silent prayer.   The trouble with silent prayer though is whilst you are busy … Continue reading

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Fr. Dominant/br. submissive – Monastic Kink

I spent some time living alongside a community of monks recently and as I’m attempting to write a kink based theology I did some reflecting and tried to view it through the BDSM lens….. with varying results

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Slaves and Masters – A Kinky Person Reads Ephesians.

This post was originally written for a friend who created an online queer commentary for the letter to the Ephesians. I was given the passage about slaves and masters (for obvious reasons) which can be found here:  Ephesians 6.5-9 – … Continue reading

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My Formational Journey in Eleven parts

I was asked to create a 15 minute reflection on my informational journey through college so far and was allowed to be as creative as I liked. I decided to write my journey out with key events and periods and … Continue reading

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Even The Light Has Shade

This is a personal piece with some thoughts I had the other day. I never intended this blog to be somewhere for me to post these kinds of things but I was in a bad place and found that it … Continue reading

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Church Dogminatrix – Meditation & Prayer

Prayer and meditation are staples of the religious and spiritual life. In fact it’s neigh on impossible to lead a spiritual life without at least one of these things. They’re certainly not exclusively Christian either, prayer is universal to all … Continue reading

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Church Dogminatrix – A Place of Strength

As well as using this blog to explore what the BDSM community has to offer Christian theology I thought I would look at what people of faith have to offer the people of kink. Hopefully there will be techniques, knowledge … Continue reading

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I have called you by name…..

Names are powerful. They can offer us a sense of identity. They can be used by others to manipulate, either positively or negatively, for example people will intentionally forget someone’s name to try and impose a sense of importance, or … Continue reading

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