Category Archives: spirituality

Anxiety and Submissive me.

So I’ve recently started seeing a therapist for my anxiety. It’s been a big step for me because I was one of those (stupid) people who always thought going to therapy was weak, and that I wasn’t really that bad … Continue reading

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A light to lighten the Grey

This is a sermon I preached at an LGBTI+ service. It’s also the first time I’ve been open about my sexuality in my professional capacity, so it’s a coming out sermon of sorts. The passage is Luke 2.22-35 A light … Continue reading

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BDSM and the Eucharist

“Take, eat, this is my body broken for you” When it comes to intimacy with God, no other act of worship or devotion brings us closer or deeper into contact with the Divine than the Eucharist. In the Eucharist, or … Continue reading

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Rubber Hooded Clergy

In the world of Christian liturgical worship clothing is very important, and when used correctly can bring a whole other dimension to the experiences of those involved. Special types of clothing worn by those leading worship (and occasionally those participating … Continue reading

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Waiting…..

So a few weeks ago I spent some time in a silent monastery, and what does one do in a silent monastery? One spends time in silent prayer.   The trouble with silent prayer though is whilst you are busy … Continue reading

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Fr. Dominant/br. submissive – Monastic Kink

I spent some time living alongside a community of monks recently and as I’m attempting to write a kink based theology I did some reflecting and tried to view it through the BDSM lens….. with varying results

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Slaves and Masters – A Kinky Person Reads Ephesians.

This post was originally written for a friend who created an online queer commentary for the letter to the Ephesians. I was given the passage about slaves and masters (for obvious reasons) which can be found here:  Ephesians 6.5-9 – … Continue reading

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My Formational Journey in Eleven parts

I was asked to create a 15 minute reflection on my informational journey through college so far and was allowed to be as creative as I liked. I decided to write my journey out with key events and periods and … Continue reading

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Even The Light Has Shade

This is a personal piece with some thoughts I had the other day. I never intended this blog to be somewhere for me to post these kinds of things but I was in a bad place and found that it … Continue reading

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Church Dogminatrix – Meditation & Prayer

Prayer and meditation are staples of the religious and spiritual life. In fact it’s neigh on impossible to lead a spiritual life without at least one of these things. They’re certainly not exclusively Christian either, prayer is universal to all … Continue reading

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