Category Archives: Suffering

BDSM and the Eucharist

“Take eat, this is my body broken for you” When it comes to intimacy with God, no other act of worship or devotion brings us closer or deeper into contact with the Divine than the Eucharist. In the Eucharist, or … Continue reading

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The Martyrdom of Stephen and the martyrdom of the Queer.

This is a reflection I wrote for a group of LGBT+ Christians as part of their summer reflection series looking at the book of acts. I chose Stephens Martyrdom because I wanted a weighty topic to get behind before the … Continue reading

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Fr. Dominant/br. submissive – Monastic Kink

I spent some time living alongside a community of monks recently and as I’m attempting to write a kink based theology I did some reflecting and tried to view it through the BDSM lens….. with varying results

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The God Who Suffers With Us…. Good Friday Sermon

This sermon was preached in a parish church on Good Friday 2016 based on the Passion Narrative in John’s Gospel   Did Jesus have to die?

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