Tag Archives: BDSM

Waiting…..

So a few weeks ago I spent some time in a silent monastery, and what does one do in a silent monastery? One spends time in silent prayer.   The trouble with silent prayer though is whilst you are busy … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, God, Prayer, spirituality, Submission | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

Fear the Lord your Dom/me

  Deuteronomy 10.20: You shall fear the Lord your God; him alone you shall worship; to him you shall hold fast, and by his name you shall swear.  

Posted in BDSM, God, Love, relationship, Submission | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Fr. Dominant/br. submissive – Monastic Kink

I spent some time living alongside a community of monks recently and as I’m attempting to write a kink based theology I did some reflecting and tried to view it through the BDSM lens….. with varying results

Posted in BDSM, Ministry, relationship, spirituality, Submission, Suffering | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Slaves and Masters – A Kinky Person Reads Ephesians.

This post was originally written for a friend who created an online queer commentary for the letter to the Ephesians. I was given the passage about slaves and masters (for obvious reasons) which can be found here:  Ephesians 6.5-9 – … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Bible Study, God, kink, relationship, Scripture, spirituality, Submission | Tagged , , , , , | 3 Comments

An introductory lecture to Kink and Theology

This is the first (mini) lecture I’ve given on my Kink Theology idea. Given to a University Kink Society at a session they held on Kink and Academia.

Posted in BDSM, God, incarnation, Jesus, kink, Questions, Theology | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Church Dogminatrix – Meditation & Prayer

Prayer and meditation are staples of the religious and spiritual life. In fact it’s neigh on impossible to lead a spiritual life without at least one of these things. They’re certainly not exclusively Christian either, prayer is universal to all … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Church Dogminatrix, Faith Lessons, spirituality | Tagged , , | Leave a comment

In Service Topping to the Lord

The Christian minister holds a unique position in the world today. As leaders of communities they are given charge over people and head up teams of both employees and volunteers. They are often responsible for a big expensive building (sometimes … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, kink, Ministry, Submission, Titles | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

The Submissive Virgin Mary

Can Mary’s submissive “yes” be saved and transformed by the BDSM understanding of what it means to be a bottom and truly submit? Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Submission, Theology, Women | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Church Dogminatrix – A Place of Strength

As well as using this blog to explore what the BDSM community has to offer Christian theology I thought I would look at what people of faith have to offer the people of kink. Hopefully there will be techniques, knowledge … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Church Dogminatrix, Faith Lessons, God, kink, relationship, spirituality | Tagged , , , | 1 Comment

I have called you by name…..

Names are powerful. They can offer us a sense of identity. They can be used by others to manipulate, either positively or negatively, for example people will intentionally forget someone’s name to try and impose a sense of importance, or … Continue reading

Posted in BDSM, Names, spirituality, Titles | Tagged , , , , , | 1 Comment