Category Archives: relationship

Fear the Lord your Dom/me

  Deuteronomy 10.20: You shall fear the Lord your God; him alone you shall worship; to him you shall hold fast, and by his name you shall swear.  

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Fr. Dominant/br. submissive – Monastic Kink

I spent some time living alongside a community of monks recently and as I’m attempting to write a kink based theology I did some reflecting and tried to view it through the BDSM lens….. with varying results

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Slaves and Masters – A Kinky Person Reads Ephesians.

This post was originally written for a friend who created an online queer commentary for the letter to the Ephesians. I was given the passage about slaves and masters (for obvious reasons) which can be found here:  Ephesians 6.5-9 – … Continue reading

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What kind of relationship do we want with Jesus? – John 13.21-32

This reflection was written for Holy Wednesday 2016. Based on Judas’ betrayal – John 13.21-32

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Making my self a switch to all…

So I recently had my first experience properly dominating someone. I’d met this girl at my university’s fetish society and we hit it off and talked about potentially playing together. We were both subs so I said we could try … Continue reading

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Church Dogminatrix – A Place of Strength

As well as using this blog to explore what the BDSM community has to offer Christian theology I thought I would look at what people of faith have to offer the people of kink. Hopefully there will be techniques, knowledge … Continue reading

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